"Oscar Wilde said:"Each man kills the thing he loves." And,it's true. The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the ordinary person with guilt. We look around at all those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. I have known a lot of people who,when their personal calling was within their grasp,went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal-when it was only a step away."-Paulo Coehlo